Have y’all ever been discouraged? Well, I have been. A lot lately actually. We see all these super happy Facebook posts and think they must have the best life. Nothing bad ever happens to them, they’re always so positive and upbeat about everything. Well, a lot of times, yeah, they may be happy in those picture perfect moments but they still have a lot going on that they don’t broadcast all over Facebook. I post happy things because I love my daughter and think/know that she is the cutest thing ever! And my husband, because I love him so much! And I love my family and I love living life with them. But that doesn’t mean that life is all happiness and good times. Yes, we try to make the best out of everything and enjoy everything we can, but we still have what’s really going on in life in the back of our minds. We’re saying “How are we going to make it this week?” Whether it’s finances or groceries or whatever it may be.
I’m a mom, I would love to stay home with my daughter and spend more time with my husband on his days off. But we can’t afford it right now, if we’ll ever be able to. I’m always posting happy and positive things on Facebook and cute and funny videos- because I want to make someone else laugh, maybe even make their day. Make someone smile when they’ve maybe been struggling to smile lately. Just because I post all happy and positive things, does not mean that nothing negative is happening at home or in life. Life is hard, I just don’t like to post about all the hard and negative things in life. We don’t need to share all the negative things to get attention or for someone to ask “What’s wrong?” just to say “Oh, I don’t want to talk about it.” or on the rude side and saying “Mind your own business.” – which if you were to say that, then it would be your fault for posting whatever it was that “wasn’t their business”. If you know what I mean.
I don’t want to post negative or depressing things on Facebook, people may be posting only happy and positive things on Facebook and everyone says social media is bad (which in some ways it is) and people are being fake because they only share the happy moments, but that doesn’t mean they’re fake. It just means they don’t want to share all the hard things in life. But EVERYONE goes through hard things in life.
We want to spread happiness and positivity. But just because that’s all that is posted, doesn’t mean that theres nothing going on in that family or that person. Everyone has battles that they’re going through that they don’t tell anyone about. Either because they can’t or they don’t want to because they don’t want others to see them that way and/or spread things about them about how they’re always being negative or just want attention. Sometimes people need attention, they need love. Maybe that person is thinking of ending their life later that day, and you wouldn’t know it because you’re too busy in your own world. You don’t want to talk to some random person who looks like they’re having a bad day because you may be having a bad day and think that someone should come up to you and see what’s wrong with you instead. You need to be there for others too. You could be that one person who convinces them to not take their own life. Even if they don’t tell you specifically that that was their plan. There are still battles being fought. Some alone. Don’t judge people so quickly. People are going through a lot more than what you think or see.
Just some thoughts that I’ve had lately.
I have started a business, it is direct sales. It is not some pyramid scheme, it is real. And it is amazing! I REALLY want to be able to be a stay at home mom, and it helping me. That is why I am going to work really hard with the shampoo business. There are so many women doing direct sales, when you buy from them, it is going to help THEM and their FAMILY, not some celebrity. Help them. I chose the shampoo business, because everyone washes their hair, everyone uses shampoo. If you want to know more about the business, send me a message. I’d love to talk to you about it. Thanks for reading this post. This is my family. This is why I am doing what I do. Why I am trying to work this business, to help my family! 
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